Friday, February 20, 2009

Life In Stereo - Jan 2009 Issue









































Resolution - a microstory

He was staring at her with that stupid eyebrow cocked at a funny angle. She knew any reply would be better than silence, but nothing came. She felt the self-righteousness pulsating from his face, slightly pink with frustration.

“Well?” he barked, nose squeaking. Mark had a tendency to squeak when things weren’t going his way. It was either from his sinusitis, or an Asperger’s tic. She winced at the familiarity. He pushed his glasses up the bridge of his nose.

Her mind raced in slow motion, like when you’re trying to run in a nightmare. She could pull out her default, which went something like, “Okay, sorry. I should have ran it past you. I didn’t think you’d mind. I’m sorry.” Then perhaps a conciliatory hug, maybe even a peck on the cheek, and he’d be back to studying his crossword puzzle with his feet up on the coffee table in an hour or so. She’d take a long bath after dinner, stare into the steamy mirror at the lines trekking painstakingly across her face, and wonder at what point in her 36 years had her life derailed into such tedium.

Or, she could screw the norm, take a deep breath, and retort, “What do you mean ‘well?’ Are you a complete moron, or just pretending to be? Who cares if the curtains aren’t exactly periwinkle? What kind of guy says ‘periwinkle’ anyway? Why don’t you shove that Panda Express up your ass and get the hell out of my house. Yes, my house. Don’t forget, I paid for this goddamn place.”

She bit her lip, undecided. Mark wasn’t a bad guy after all. Just, dense. A bit frayed for forty. Completely OCD. And apparently obsessed with interior decorating. But he wasn’t the worst guy she’d been with. At least he didn’t lie to her face or sleep with her sister. Yes, that did happen. She shuddered, remembering.

“Emily, are you going to say anything, or are we just going to stand here while the food gets cold?” he demanded. “Dinner was $15.80 by the way. You can’t get anything decent without shelling out at least 15 bucks these days.”

She instinctively reached for her purse on the counter, then hesitated. Her hand hovered for a second, before pulling out the counter stool. She scooched onto the seat, legs dangling before finding the footrest. Mark’s face contorted impatiently.

“Mark, I think you should go.” The words sounded foreign. Exes usually left her long before she even realized those words needed to be said.

“What did you say?”

She gripped the edge of the counter to steady her resolve. “Mark, you need to leave. This isn’t working out anymore.” Oh, the cliché.

He glared at her for a good three seconds, slammed the take-out bag on the counter, and furiously removed what must have been her half of the dinner. He paused expectantly.

“You’ve got to be kidding me,” she said under her breath as she rummaged through her bag, counted out eight dollars, and shoved them across the countertop.

“Fine. Thanks.” He hesitated. “You’re gonna regret this, Em. You keep thinking you’re going to find someone better but you won’t. Women like you never do.” He emphasized the “you” by throwing his laptop bag a bit too brusquely over his shoulder.

She didn’t respond until he’d slammed the door behind him.

“You may just be right,” she whispered, smiling to herself.

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Sunday, December 14, 2008

Life In Stereo - Dec 2008 Issue




































I am caught in a time that only I can remember, because this time lives only in my memory, my memory and yours. But your memory is gone, dissolved away as you did, not too long ago. And it wasn’t too long ago, was it, since the last time you reached out for my hand? Not too long ago since we fell, careening into a happiness I never knew could exist.

And then I was frozen. It happened in a millisecond. The air hangs still. You can almost see the frozen molecules clinging to one another, forming a quiet nothingness that preserves you lying there, and me standing here under a megaton of realization waiting to fall upon my head. I am afraid to exhale, to bring me into the next moment that follows this one: the moment in which you are pronounced dead. “Are you sure?” I blinked against the fluorescent lights. “Yes, ma’am. He was dead upon arrival. We’ve tried everything we could for the past half hour. He’s gone.”

I have been holding my breath for the past year and nine months. Sometimes I wonder if anyone notices. I like to pretend that they don’t, that they cannot know the difference between the me going about my business everyday, and the popsicle me inside, dead amongst the living. The core of me lies with you, interred in a cement grave beside a silver urn of your ashes. What are ashes, anyway? Remnants of molecules reconfigured into a desperate preservation of that which was you. But the dead are most finely preserved in memories. Wayward, inconstant memories that deceive and give an approximation of truth, leaving you wholly dissatisfied, frustrated in its evanescence, pissed off in its perversions, angry in its clarity, and ultimately, fiending for more.

I can live with your blue shadow forever, can’t I? There’s no compelling reason for me to join the real world, beyond this comforting subterranean chill. I used to abhor the cold, but now I look for solace in its twilit corners. Swathed in indigo gauze, I am lulled to sleep by whispers and echoes of you.

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Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Tatler (Asiawide Distribution) Aug 08 - spread

(photos: Edmon Leong; text: Jenn Chan Lyman)







Tatler (Asiawide Distribution) Aug 08 - text

Jordan: A Photographer's Perspective

When I arrived at Queen Alia International Airport, the first impression I had of Jordan was its rather intense dedication to tourism control. Beyond the normal rigmarole of customs and immigration, the tourism police meticulously compared our documentation with the itinerary we submitted during our visa application. If any divergence from the original plan was suspected, we would be put right back on a plane with not so much as a glance of Jordan.

Armed guards reminded us that conflict was no stranger here. Jordan is a relatively peaceful land wedged between states known for discord. Syria and Iraq form its northern borders, while Saudi Arabia wraps around the east and southeast. Israel and the West Bank share the Dead Sea to the west, while Egypt lies across the Gulf of Aqaba in its southwest corner. When it comes to political turmoil in the Middle East, Jordan is squarely in the line of fire. Watching tense officials riffle through our paperwork underlined that we were about to venture into the danger zone.  

After we received the stamp of approval, we headed into the capital city in a chartered minibus. As we drove along the dusty roads towards Amman, I was struck by the sheer vastness of the sky above us, an immaculate azure dome above the desert plateau and its swirling sands. Most of the structures in the city reflected the tans, taupes and khakis of the desert, forming a neutral background for colorful storefronts and advertisements. We checked into the Marriott, passing through metal detectors that guarded each entrance, an understandable safeguard for a hotel that has been bombed three times in the recent past.

Once on the streets of Amman, I quickly noticed the lack of panhandlers and peddlers that you often encounter in large cities. As much as I’d read about the Muslim practice of hijab, it was still a shock to see women covered from head to toe in the dry heat, with their long, loose-fitting jilbab, and only their eyes visible under their niqab veils. Many women averted their eyes, especially when they saw that I had a camera. Only husbands are allowed to photograph their wives. Aware that I might inadvertently offend someone, I shot with my camera at my hip and relied on telefoto for tighter shots.

After one night in the capital, we drove south towards Mount Nebo. From the summit, our tour guide led us to the banks of the Jordan River, flowing down from the Sea of Galilee. It was incredibly unreal to be standing beside a river of such historical and religious significance. Friends in our tour group more religious than I were visibly moved as they touched the waters at al-Maghtas, the site where Jesus was baptized. Bearing precious water in an arid land, the Jordan River and its tributaries are critical to the torso of the Fertile Crescent, much like the Nile in the southwest and the Euphrates and Tigris in the northeast.

Heading downstream, we reached the eerily quiet waters of al-Bar l-Mayyit, the Dead Sea. There was not a bird within hearing range or any sign of life, other than a handful of tourists bathing in the buoyant waters. As the sun submerged, a soft mist rose above its spectacularly still surface. We stayed for two nights at the Mövenpick Resort & Spa, designed to resemble a seaside village with its low, sandstone structures and clean architectural lines.

Next, we headed for Petra, my most anticipated destination by far. Petra has held a place in my imagination since I saw Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade as a kid. We were finally on our way to Harrison Ford’s Holy Grail. Soft, shifting dunes lounged lazily beside rough limestone steppes as we drove down the King’s Highway. Gazing upon this land of the Bedouins, I wondered if much had changed from the days when this area was first dubbed the Fertile Crescent, the Levant, even the “cradle of civilization”. The harsh contrasts of sand, rock, and shadow are inspiring for a photographer, but not exactly a lush Eden. After a full day’s drive, we reached Petra at nightfall.

The next morning, we set off towards Al Siq, a protective gorge forming the only entrance to Petra. Walking in the morning light, I was mesmerized by the pastel palette of sandstone layers around us. Pinks, purples, mauves, and all sorts of nameless colors wove along the weathered walls inside the narrow canyon. Shallow niches had been carved into the wall by pious hands commemorating the dead. The smell of camel and donkey dung stung our nostrils as the upper walls of the gorge closed in, leaving us in long shadows.

Just as the gorge was becoming slightly claustrophobic, we caught a glimpse of cobalt blue sky and an elaborate structure ahead. Set several meters deep into the rock face, Al Khazneh al-Faroun, the Treasury of the Pharaoh, has welcomed visitors for centuries as they entered Petra, the stronghold of the ancient Nabateans circa fourth century BC and one of the New Seven Wonders of the World. It’s not easy to give justice to a two-story building carved deep into stone over two thousand years ago on a 35mm, but I clicked away regardless. The kid in me wanted to clamber up the intricate façade to find that secret switch that would reveal the Pharaoh’s treasure. The adult in me wanted to genuflect at the accomplishments of a clearly sophisticated civilization.

As with most buildings in Petra, the Khazneh is a monument to the dead. An entire city devoted to honoring ancestors is difficult to imagine today. The Nabateans must have spent the greater part of their lives chiseling and honing to form these exquisite tombs, whose glory can only be imagined now. Brightly colored stalls lined the ruins, with friendly shopkeepers who smiled at us, while their children scampered happily along the sandstone mounds. Much to our relief, we were neither harassed nor ignored.

We continued along the natural curve of the hillside towards the four Royal Tombs on the city’s main promenade. Each of these illustrious monuments features specific architectural styles, from traditional Nabatean to Greek Hellenistic to the more modern Doric. In a breathtaking blend of nature and man, tombs materialize out of the rocks as far as the eye can see. Gaping cavities endure, paying silent homage to their late inhabitants. We trekked northwest for two hours towards the largest and loneliest of Petra’s edifices, Ed-Deir, the Monastery. With its predominantly Nabatean elements and distinctive disc engravings, some archaeologists believe it to be the tomb of the last Nabatean king.  

On the second morning of our Petra adventure, we hiked to the summit, astutely referred to as the High Place. The journey up the face of the mountain was sweat inducing to say the least as we swayed on donkeys up a narrow path. Any misstep of two or three inches would have been fatal, but these donkeys knew what they were doing. Perched on the Attuf Ridge, the High Place overlooks the entire canyon of Petra and formerly served as a sacrificial site for ancient worshippers.

After descending the mountain on foot, we hopped aboard jeeps for the final leg of our Jordan journey, the Wadi Rum. Famously featured on the silver screen in the 1962 epic, Lawrence of Arabia, the Wadi Rum is the largest and arguably most stunning of Jordan’s wadis, or valleys. We stopped to rest at a teahouse set in a traditional Bedouin tent, with three walls of heavy carpet and one open face. Our host regaled us with song and dance, and I felt my eyelids getting heavy in the afternoon heat.

Lulled by the lilting melancholy of the oud, the lute’s Arabic predecessor, I felt myself submersed in the surreality of Jordan. In just six days, I had traversed far from my initial impression of tension and conflict. I peered across the sandy sea as evening winds brushed new waves along the dunes, and reveled in the feather-light sense of freedom that washed over me.

(submitted June 22, 2008, 1348 words)

Monday, April 14, 2008

IN Magazine: Apr 08 issue - spread

(photos: Edmon Leong, text: Jenn Chan Lyman)






































IN Magazine: Apr 08 issue - text

Susan and Steven

Long ago, during their university days in Vancouver, Steven was first attracted to Susan when he heard her dulcet tones on the other end of the phone. Sure enough, the rest of Susan proved just as adorable as her voice and from their very first date, Steven had his heart set on being with her for the rest of their lives. Within six months, the two created their own wedding certificate, exchanged rings, and declared themselves married in their hearts. Eight years later and all grown up, the happy-go-lucky couple made it official at St. Margaret Mary’s Church in Happy Valley, Hong Kong.

As Susan walked down the aisle, her heart fluttered along with the delicate feathers adorning her Melissa Sweet silk and lace sheath, which her father helped her select. Steven’s Ermenegildo Zegna white jacket and black trousers were accentuated by a vintage cream ascot tied in a bow around his collar, a gift from his soon to be father-in-law. Seeing Susan’s sweet smile behind her mantilla, Steven was once again reminded how she had been “the one” for a long time.

After the priest’s blessing, Susan and Steven exchanged matching Cartier bands and kissed for the first time as husband and wife. A photo excursion was next, starting with a stroll in the park and then a tram ride into the heart of the Central district. Onlookers smiled as the decked-out couple sauntered along busy overpasses and stopped for lunch at McDonald’s. Afterwards, they hopped aboard the Star Ferry which whisked them across the water towards their evening destination.

The historic Peninsula hotel was the perfect follow up to St. Margaret Mary’s Church, as both were built in the late twenties. Friends and family gathered together in the colonial-style banquet hall and were touched by videos recorded by the couple with personalized messages to each of the guests. Steven surprised Susan with an on-the-spot re-enactment of the proposal, while Susan brought tears to his eyes during her speech. After stepping away momentarily, Susan returned in a ruby red Vera Wang evening gown, escorted by Steven in a sleek Georgio Armani suit. A personal Ceroc dance instructor inspired the entire party to dance until midnight, celebrating this long-awaited day in the story of Susan and Steven.

Monday, February 18, 2008

IN Magazine: Feb 08 issue - spread

(photos: Edmon Leong, text: Jenn Chan Lyman)











































































IN Magazine: Feb 08 issue - text

Hedda and Leonard

More often than not, that special spark between two people ignies by accident. For Hedda and Leonard, the first flicker happened literally by means of an accident. The couple met at a dinner one night with mutual friends in San Francisco. As they parted, a taxi charged head-on into Leonard’s car at the intersection where they had just dined. Hedda rushed over to make sure he was all right. As Leonard recollects, it was her genuine concern that impacted [Editorial changed to “impressed”] him the most that night and continues to win him over even now.

Thailand
is quite far away from their California home, but the isle of Phuket offered both familiarity and adventure for the couple’s nuptials. Hedda’s family had met there often for the holidays, while many other guests would be venturing to Thailand for the first time. Out of the many resorts situated in the Laguna cluster just bordering the Andaman Sea, the couple decided on the renowned Banyan Tree Phuket for their wedding ceremony.

[Natural adventure-seekers, even tsunami scares did not keep the down-to-earth couple from having a fabulous time as friends and family poured in with the wind and rain from around the world.] [Editorial deleted] The big day began with a few Herculean [Editorial changed to “crazy”] tasks for the groom as he arrived to pick up his bride. Leonard and his crew performed a fully-clothed, synchronized swimming version of a Jay Chou classic and gulped down a concoction of dried, whole wasps. When the bridesmaids were finally satisfied, Hedda stepped out, exquisite in a traditional two-piece “kwa”. After pouring tea for their elders, Hedda retired to don a deliciously crumpled cream gown of Thai silk designed by Barcelona’s Pronovias and prepare for their exchange of vows.

The Banyan Tree’s Glass Chapel provided shelter from intermittent sprinkles as well as a 360° view of the lush landscapes surrounding the congregation. Leonard was ready for action in a lightweight navy Ben Sherman suit, grinning as Hedda walked down the aisle towards him. After the ‘I-do’s’, guests took pictures with a baby elephant arranged by the couple as a surprise before the dinner reception. The night reached its zenith in a shower of fireworks, a gift to the newlyweds from Hedda’s brother and Leonard’s new brother-in-law, a perfect epilogue to a memorable day.

Thursday, November 8, 2007

IN Magazine: Nov 07 issue - spread

(photos: Edmon Leong, text: Jenn Chan Lyman)

















































































































IN Magazine: Nov 07 issue - text

Jenn and Levi

Weddings often conjure images of solemn vows and traditional rites of passage, pronouncing you man and wife. In other words, there are things you expect, and things you don’t. In Jenn and Levi’s case, the road to getting married was full of the unexpected. Levi and Jenn met over Christmas holidays in 2005 in Kona, Hawaii. Neither expected to find such a perfect match of silliness and sincerity, and in less than four months, the two were married in a private ceremony in Oakland, California. That’s when they started to plan their wedding.

From the beginning, Jenn and Levi wanted their wedding to be more fun than fancy. Kona was the perfect meeting ground for the Shanghai-based couple and their friends and family along the Pacific Rim. The Fairmont Orchid’s Turtle Pointe, an outdoor venue where black volcanic rocks and white-washed sands met cerulean skies, was the perfect setting. Jenn’s first maid of honor designed a wedding motif for the couple: a pair of sea turtles with Chinese characters etched on their backs, along with all of the wedding stationery. The invite was written in the form of a movie trailer starring the happy couple. The other maid of honor hand-made chocolate tulips as table favors. Levi, a music engineer and DJ, pre-mixed a seven-hour play list for the entire occasion.

Exactly a year from the date of their first wedding day, Levi patiently awaited his bride in the company of his groomsmen and Jenn’s 'bridesman'. The men all sported linen pants and classic Tommy Bahama shirts. Walking in to the lilting theme of Il Postino, family members were followed by bridesmaids in tea-length gowns of bright coral. The bride entered with both mother and father, resplendent in a slender silk gown with a cathedral train. A handmade mantilla veil framed her face and flowed behind her with a scattering of embroidered flowers. Both bride and groom beamed in the afternoon light.

The officiant, a friend of the couple, smiled at the ensemble of friends and family who had traveled far to be with Jenn and Levi in Kona, and began with a passage from The Princess Bride: “Mawwiage. Mawwiage is what bwings us together today.” And brought together they surely were.


Jenna and Jacques

Jenna and Jacques found each other one summer’s evening in late August 2005 at a chic lounge in the heart of Hong Kong, aptly named FINDS. A little over a year later, the couple welcomed family and friends from around the world to one of the most refined luxury hotels in Seoul, to participate in a wedding ceremony that paid homage to Jenna’s Korean heritage and also embraced the Western traditions of Jacques’ Parisian upbringing.

Traditional Korean ceremonies address key themes that are meant to bring fortune to the lucky couple. The bride and groom dressed in sumptuous garments representing prosperity and respect to the sacrosanct commitment of marriage. Three red circles were painted on Jenna’s face to protect her from malicious spirits. Both bride and groom wore silk caps representing nobility and rank as they bowed with respect to their elders. Dates and jujubes were offered to Jenna’s new in-laws and later these symbols of children to come were tossed towards the new couple, who caught as many as they could in the bride’s wide skirt.

Following these Korean traditions, the couple held a quaint outdoor ceremony followed by dinner. Jenna exchanged her colorful traditional garments for a strapless designer gown, with a sweetheart neckline and a layered skirt of silk tulle. Orange and cream bouquets and white candle pillars lined the aisle at intermittent spots. The bride smiled shyly behind her blusher veil, clasping a bouquet of long-stemmed calla lilies. Jacques grinned as she came up the aisle, all decked out and looking dapper in his black tuxedo with tails.

After the ceremony, bride and groom greeted their guests and showed off their brand new matching wedding bands. An orange, cream and chocolate palette formed a delicious backdrop indoors and out. At nightfall, Jenna stepped away to change into an off-white mermaid-cut evening dress with a gathered waist. Guests dined on succulent Western cuisine matched with carefully selected wines. Jenna and Jacques stole away to share a few quiet moments as their photographers captured the chemistry between them in the lounge areas around the hotel. The hotel’s décor focused on the play of lights upon form and structure, creating the perfect highlights to the glow they shared at the end of an unforgettable day.

Saturday, October 6, 2007

IN Magazine: Oct 07 issue

(photos: Edmon Leong, text: Jenn Chan Lyman)









































































































Friday, October 5, 2007

IN Magazine: Oct 07 issue - text

Cindy and James

If the story of Cindy and James were to be written into a movie script, it would definitely be a romantic comedy. It all began with a chance meeting at a mutual friend’s wedding, after which the bedazzled couple parted ways, one to Shanghai, China and the other to Barnstaple, U.K. Reams of phone bills and many long-haul flights later, the two finally set up shop in Barnstaple, James’ hometown. The comedy side comes naturally with the couple’s good-natured and goofy personalities. Cindy, an insightful, adventure-seeking Seattle native living in Shanghai, has a laugh that could disarm you in a second. And James, a thoughtful chap running a family business that his father built over decades of hard work, has a smile that could just as easily win you over.

On 19 June, 2006, the couple invited their families and friends to Bovey Castle for their wedding day, the very same castle where James asked for Cindy’s hand a year before. The day began with a bow to their Chinese heritage in an afternoon tea ceremony. Cindy’s cheongsam, designed by her and tailor-made in Shanghai, was traditionally cut in the bodice but fanned out into a long phoenix’s tail of silk that sashayed fluidly behind her as she entered the room. James knelt beside her, smartly outfitted in a three piece tuxedo in tune with the early 20th century décor of the venue. The couple presented tea to their elders and accepted words of wisdom and red pockets of good luck money, traditional gifts for a couple’s new start.

After the tea ceremony, James hosted the cocktails while the bride excused herself to prepare for the wedding ceremony. Dressed in a stunning cream wedding gown with an elbow-length veil of silk tulle, Cindy glowed as she proceeded towards the ceremony with her bridal party. Her off-the-shoulder gown, detailed with pearls and champagne beading, was adorned at the waist with a rich cream sash. Fuschia and red Chinese umbrellas, matching the fuschia knee-length gowns of her three bridesmaids, shielded them from the light sprinkle of afternoon rain. The congregation stood as Cindy began coming down the aisle on the arm of her father. After the couple was pronounced husband and wife, champagne glasses were raised to the newlyweds, toasts to a new chapter in the story of Cindy and James.


Laurette and Mark

Born and raised on opposite sides of the world, Laurette from Deux-Sevre, France and Mark from Te Awamutu, New Zealand, they met in London where Laurette happened to share a flat with Mark’s university mate. Their courtship spanned years of living in different cities, until Laurette finally moved to New Zealand. Two years later, while swimming in a lagoon in the remote Yasawa Islands in Fiji, Mark popped the question.

The couple chose to marry close to Laurette’s hometown and after browsing through an abundance of chateaus near the area, the couple chose Château de la Flocellière in the Loire Valley, a castle first built in the early 11th century and carefully maintained throughout the ages.

The wedding day on 15 July, 2006, began with an indoor ceremony held in a church a short distance from La Flocellière. The bride was exquisite in a strapless A-line gown with a sheer long-sleeved sheath that she donned for the formal ceremony. Her long hair was swept to one side, braided and accentuated with white satin ribbons. The final touch was a necklace of pearl strands knotted together to form a waterfall of pearl droplets. Mark was radiant in a smart three-button summer suit and matching champagne tie. After their exchange of vows, the congregation followed the newlyweds to the chateau for cocktails in the manicured gardens.

That night, the grounds of La Flocellière sparkled not only with old French charm, but also with the mirth and exuberance of the entire wedding party. The mix of New Zealand and French customs, both of which encouraged much singing and dancing to begin with, progressed to festivities that carried on until the early morning. Guests sang and swung their napkins vigorously above their heads upon the arrival of the new bride and groom. New Zealanders performed the haka dance with their shirts off. Adhering to French tradition, guests doused the couple with streamers and confetti as they hid beneath a multi-colored umbrella for their first dance. A huge brioche and French onion soup repast was served around 3am before everyone retired to bed, exhausted and happy for the newlyweds. All in all, the wedding was the perfect manifestation of Laurette and Mark, a mix of lively cultures, wholehearted laughter and down-to-earth good fun.